FWB Relationship Advice: Reasons Why You Won’t Become His Girlfriend

Though it is a cruel fact that it is hard for you to accept, you have to admit that emotional development shouldn’t take a place in the FWB relationship. All things about NSA relationships are associated with sex and nothing more. Thus, for your FWB, your emotions and actions are of no importance to him and he regards you as nothing, but just a booty call. Even though you deem that you get along well with your FWB all along, no matter as a friend or in bedtime, it is possible that he would ever and never want you to be his girlfriend. You may wonder why he is reluctant to commit to you. You can find answers below.

1. Hasn’t forgotten his ex

There are many reasons why people pursue FWB relationship, one of which is that he is still in the pain of breaking up with his ex. He wanted to find comfort, to be able to satisfy his sexual desire, to be accompanied when he was lonely. But people often don't tell their FWB the cruel truth. In order to find out the truth behind this NSA relationship, you can try to find out when he and his predecessor broke up. The shorter the time, the greater the possibility he hasn’t forgotten his ex. To avoid keeping yourself in this fantasy, you can ask him boldly about your casual encounters relationship and not let him escape from reality. You have to bring these cruel truths to the surface as much as possible. This fact strikes you hard and alarms you.

2. You never put him first

It is well known that people in FWB relationships want to seek sexual pleasure from each other. Before you know why he doesn't want you to be his girlfriend, you should think about what he means to you. If only when you're bored or hungry, you call him. Then you have no reason to complain that he treats you the same way. As you get along with each other for longer and longer, you may want to make him your serious quick flirt partner, which may make your friends afraid to approach you. You need to let him know that he is more than just a means of releasing your desires. Tell him how important he is to you and it will make him think about being with you. If you don't pay enough attention to him, your relationship can only stay on this superficial level.

3. He's not ready for a new relationship yet

Many people are desperate after a serious breakup. They don't want to accept new feelings, or are not ready for new ones. All they want is sexual satisfaction. So they don't have time to accompany you unless they want to have sex with you; they don't know you at all, or they don't want to know you in the slightest; when you talk to them about anything other than sex, they are not interested; when you feel desperate, they rekindle your hope. But whatever you do, it's almost impossible to be his girlfriend.